duminică, 16 noiembrie 2014

Lipsa strategiei si a orientarii de tara din Romania politica a anului 2014

16 noiembrie 2014...al doilea tur de scrutin al alegerilor prezidențiale. Este bătălia finală dintre cei 2 candidați. Victor Ponta și Klaus Johannis se bat pentru scaunul de la Cotroceni pentru o perioadă de 5 ani. Presa, poate mai trist ca altădată, este în umbră...care umbră ? Cea a unei idei a ce s-ar putea promova de pe urma celor 2 candidați. Bineînțeles că în 2014 nu mai crede nimeni în libertatea presei și în puterea lor de a vedea lucrurile obiectiv...nu după ultimii 10 ani...nu după poate singurele alegeri de după 1990 când mulți români se găsesc în ipostaza de a nu lua o decizie în vreun fel sau altul, pentru că poate ca niciodată, nici unul din candidații aflați încă de la început în cursa electorală nu are o gândire strategică, nu urmărește vreo metodă de dezvoltare și orientare a țării, nici unul nu iese în vreun fel în evidență cu vreun plan concret...în ceața politică din România, lipsesc proiectoarele care să vadă dincolo de aparență.

Tineretul...poate acum mai mai mult ca niciodată, tinerii reușesc să conștientizeze cât de important este votul lor, cât de esențial este să ai o părere și să crezi în ceea ce îți dorești, să crezi în visele tale și să lupți pentru a schimba starea de amorțeală în care se găsește țara unde locuiești, și unde trăiesc familia și cei apropiați. Campanii civice de stimulare a mersului la vot și analize destul de pertinente sunt realizate de cei cărora chiar le pasă, de cei care reușesc aproape în fiecare zi să facă diferența, prin ambiție, devotament ți pasiune.


Social media a devenit canalul de comunicare în care tinerii își motivează mersul la vot și în care par mândri de acest lucru. Fie că o fac prin aplicații, prin poze sau evenimente, ei sunt acolo. Tot acolo sunt și părerile lor, o buna parte din ele poate prea impulsive, prea bazate pe un moment ales întâmplător și parcă așteptat de mult timp pentru a riposta la capcanele electorale antrenate de mulți ani încoace.

Aceeași realitate sumbră din ultimii 10 ani...o națiune care, cu mici excepții, în multe momente se divizează în tabere neștiind pentru ce luptă, care uită foarte repede lucrurile "glorioase" care s-au întâmplat recent (și pe actorii lor), o mulțime care reacționează de multe ori doar atunci "când dă bine la PR" și care extrage foarte bine din context bucata de puzzle fără însemnătate.

Pentru prima oară din 2009 încoace, am mers la vot cu inima îndoită, știind că pentru orice alegere făcută, nu pot vedea ceva bun ieșind din ea. Îmi iubesc țara și cred în oamenii săi, de asta consider că trebuie să încercăm în fiecare zi să fim mai buni, prin faptele noastre. Îmi doresc și îi doresc României, liderii patrioți și responsabili care să își iubească țara precum o făceau strămoșii noștri, care s-au sacrificat ca să ne fie nouă bine astăzi; poporului învrăjbit - liniște, pace și colaborare, iar celor care au încă au impresia că unele lucruri sunt prezente în politica din România...momentan nu exista stânga, nu există dreapta, nu există doctrine și nici strategii de țară...există doar promisiuni de mai bine...dar nu pentru noi...

miercuri, 12 noiembrie 2014

The strangers who know each other...

It's been a while since I know you...even from the beginning, you managed to show me what a strong, independent and beautiful you are. You showed me glimpses of you and fascinated me from the first encounters. I remember quite well the time when you earned a indefinite back then, but for sure special place in my life...

I didn't know exactly at that time how can I check that all you have showed me was for real, and because I believe in you, I showed you also some important parts of me. I've trusted you enough for wanting me to hold you more close to me, and I shared with you also an important part of my work.

After a while, things got along and the initial fascination got a little bit of mistery. I can say that this drop has made everything more interesting. Misteries are fun when you manage to discover them step after step and we have done that piece by piece. The interesting part comes at the time when I consider that I know you and when I think you know me too and somehow we don't know if the brick that we build today is gonna last until tomorrow.

So tell me my dear, are we just strangers that know each other ?


joi, 6 noiembrie 2014

Few words and many steps...

In the too few times we manage to see ourselves for several moments, we are both there, but no one is actually present. I can see you struggling to stay strong, while you can see in my eyes the deep and full of understanding look that I give you, trying to see if the young lady who inspired me to pursue my dreams while fascinating me, is still there. 

Almost everytime I find the real you in the silence of the words...and I know you know it too...

You are just too far...even though you're almost next to me and nothing has really changed...


The few really peaceful moments...

It's late in the middle of the night. Maybe one of the few moments when you can breathe and be inspirational in the same time. It's that time of the day when you are ready to relax, to draw the line and probably some conclusions. It's a little bit interesting how in the most quiet times, the really inspirational thoughts are coming alive. There is also a little bit problematic, when all the real feelings are coming also on the surface and tell us what tends to go right and what we need to think about in the near future.

And there are some milestones, which we made through the day, others that are still in progress, and others that are just arising from the inspiration of the moment. 

And yes, how we can forget about one thing ? That one person where our thoughts are flying before we go to bed ? Sometime, they are coming back and wish us a beautiful day in the morning...




marți, 4 noiembrie 2014

Decisions and procrastinating

It's been a while since I have written here. I've missed this place. It is still, as always, a little hard until you (re)begin. Today I want to talk to you about decisions, or maybe about indecisions, about the lack of this process, about how people are changing and are performing depending on the day, and most of all, about the hope and the waiting for a decision to be made.

Luckily or not, this world does not spin around us all the time. And that's pretty much a good thing. But, there is also true that we can choose some paths and alternatives, simply by taking some decisions. In the end, it's a matter of choices, they say...and I tend to give them credit for that, because in the majority of cases, our intuition and soul tells us what to do and which road to choose even from the beginning. The part where we are not really convinced and we keep trying to search for that alternative that we believe in, it's a matter of hope, it's a matter of something we have seen in the other person and we are betting our option on this.

And there comes the moment when you have to decide again...between extending the time-limit of the hope, or coming back to what you already know by intuition...and you are making the effort again to believe in, until you know it's settled, you don't have the resources and the mood for believeing the story. The rest is history...


miercuri, 6 august 2014

Letter for you

Hey you. They say that most of the times, the hardest step it the beginning one. And how sometimes, the synchronization is not the best one, probably one of the starting steps should be made in the most intense moments, awaiting, in the same time, the appropriate time for expressing all the things we have not been able to say for now.


The most interesting and full of charm part is the fact that you don’t really know how and when things are going to happen, but you are already sensing the intensity of the moment when it strikes you…it’s the song that is the trigger, or the scene that reminds you what you have known since ever and the person that comes into your mind when those and other moments happen.

So, when it comes to this, you know how it feels. Thanks for being you, see you soon...

marți, 13 mai 2014

Our hopes, our dreams and a little bit of drama...

We all have our hopes and our dreams that define us and for what we are striving each day to become better, in order to get one more step closer. In a world defined by unknown, by the fear of losing what you love, and by the thought of being judged each day by others, we are facing some tough times and obstacles in what we can call "our path to success". Of course, the latter could not be defined so easy, or can it ?



Have you wondered why the most complicated things and situations tend to have the most simple solutions ? Maybe what's not so common, it's very simple after all. We all realize and know what we want and what we feel, because our intuition and heart tell us how to act and when it skipes a beat, but the art of drama is also a piece of the puzzle that makes us to look so imperfectly artistic. Like an architect, which is trying to build a flawless work, the pieces are complicated to combine...I believe that to be a good thing, because we still have a lot to learn.

We know what we want, we know how we feel about it, we know also the moment when someone values the world for us and it is important to get that feeling in return...because those are the moments when time stops, when we feel complete and when the motivation empowers us to run faster than ever to the next milestone.

vineri, 25 aprilie 2014

Because we believe in our dreams !

Facing every day the times where almost no one seems to identify a purpose and a way to become unique, or at least differentiate itself from the others, it can become very demotivating to still fighting hard for what you are and what you believe in. "It takes nothing to join the crowd. It takes everything to stand alone" said Hans F. Hanses. Probably this is one of the reasons for which we are keep facing all these resistance walls, proving again and again that we can, that we are able, talented, that we have a gift, that we believe in a dream, and for this matter we will fight for it and also for our values.

Of course, it can become more hard to say it than to just do it, mainly because the amount of work and persistent focus seems to be at least double than normal in this concern. In a society which puts no accent on respect, kindness and honesty, it can become very frustrating to go for the high goals, having "just" your passion, ambition, knowledge and values in your hand. I'm saying "just", because people are tending to believe that in order to break through and reach your objectives, you need an extra help or you just have to model yourself after the world...We don't have to talk about the money topic, which supposed to have their role, but not to lead the persons to unexpected behavior. 

And this is the presentation of how we are all tented to quit and not follow our dreams anymore, to not do the things we worked so hard for until that moment, and to accept the mediocre level of "making things easier" in the short term...it is amazing how facile we can settle with one or two moments of the so-called happiness, instead of actually strive for living the dream. Yes, we are still humans, we have powerful emotions, which lead to great implications which can affect our emotional intelligence in ways in which we haven't even probably thought before...but then again, the sun rises, bringing a new start, the bell is still ringing for an opportunity or two, and the world never stops...then WHY should we stop believing in ourselves and moreover, in our dreams ?


sâmbătă, 19 aprilie 2014

There is a right time for everything

Having this thought in my mind, I am going on the road of writing this articol, because (you have to consider) there is a right time for everything. First of all, I think that is very important to realize this fact. We tend to overthink and overworry about lots of things that happen in our lives. Many of them don't necessarily depend on us, and that's even more interesting, relating to our person...how you can manage something that you can't control ? Of course, there are many reasons for why we are doing this:

  • The rush for achieving goals and that so desired success;
  • The pressure of the society;
  • The time that seems to not have patience in terms of anything;
  • The opinions and feelings of persons that we love and care about;
  • Our ideals, values and the way of being ourselves;
  • The continuous fight with all the other factors from the road of fulfilling our dreams.
And I think you and I know that this list can go on and on...

What it is very important ? It comes a time when you are starting to realize that everything happens for a reason, that all these aspects have an order which (even though is possible not to make sense in our minds on the spot) has all the meaning in the world at the right time. And yes, maybe I keep repeating this expression, but I strongly believe that there are right times for everything: to play, to sleep, to learn (actually you can say that any period can be perceived as the right time for this), to work, to dream, to fall in love, to explore and so on.

It is very fascinating when you realize that these right times can also be multiple, in the same or separate times and each of them has a different and sometimes unique feeling. Another particularity can be the fact that when you finally perceive it, you can appreciate it at that specific level. 

And another beautiful exemple is when you discover...how much things tend to change from time to time and how that specific topic helped in what you have become today. So, if you ask me, follow your dreams, your heart and your intuition because they know exactly how you feel, what you are and where you want to be, and much more than this...when it's the right time for everything !



luni, 17 martie 2014

Pure randomness

It's been a while since I have been written a post. It's not that I wouldn't like to, because it's one of those little passions that define you and which inspire you when you don't really know what direction to choose in a crossroad. Why am I writting this post in English? I wanted for some time to do this, and somehow, the inspiration point hits you when seems to be the reasonable time.

Let's go back to the title and develop a little bit more about the topic. The word "Random" can be defined from few perspectives, but the general idea is related to the state of acting by chance, accidentally, not according to a plan or an intention. We, the Romanian people, have an interesting way of dealing with the randomness. The first sense is (and it should be, if you ask me) the act of being spontaneous, which is not actually a bad thing, and is it quite good to use it from time to time. You can't always be spontaneous, it would not have the same meaning anymore. Still, spontaneity can bring you some amazing things if you just go with your gut and extend what the inspiration and intuition are already telling you. This also goes from the premise that you are knowing yourself pretty good and the 2 characteristics described above are just guiding you to some potentially interesting experiences. 

The second sense of the word is interpreted in a "carpe diem" way, which is not really charcteristic to our nation, basically because of all the worries and concerns regarding our finances and social status. It's pretty hard to guide your life by this principle, even more hard to manage and organize yourself, so at the best level, if you ask me, you can achieve a maximum of the first alternative as the optimal point here.

The third and probably the most seen sense of interpretation of the word is the one when people are rather doing rather random activities, not expecting something concrete, just reaching a certain level of decision, where the utility moves slightly from 0. The americans tend to use (funny or not) the term "Stuff" for this kind of activities, and the antagonistic part is that at a certain point from our road, we all seem to forget a little bit about our big picture (our dreams and what really defines us), and we are looking to this random ideas, trying to find that missed step from our journey. It is true...we live in some weird times, where the plans are multiple and the personal identity doesn't really exist anymore. We work hard trying to find our path, and there are some moments when you feel alone, even though you're surrounded by many people, colleagues, etc.

And when it seems like we lose hope...there's just that light seen in the eyes of another person, which reminds us from ourselves and what important some aspects really are for us, and that we are not alone in a random world...

vineri, 14 februarie 2014

Romania Plus - Sa facem ordine in atitudine !

V-am mai povestit despre inspiraţie...mi-ar plăcea să vă scriu mai des despre ea. Este unul din sentimentele care pur şi simplu te motivează şi alături de care poţi muta şi munţii din loc. Sunt din nefericire din ce în ce mai puţine momentele de acest gen, şi parcă chiar mai puţin numeroşi, oamenii din jurul nostru care ne inspiră şi care (după cum îmi place mie să spun) emană respect, pur şi simplu.

Încă de dimineaţă, fiind una din zilele în care am avut puţin timp să stau să mai citesc, mă uitam pe articolele scrise de Cabral (aici si aici), referitoare la ţara noastră şi omuleţii ce o compun. Ca tema generală, un subiect destul de complex, interesant şi variat, din care cred că poţi scrie pentru o bună perioadă de timp şi constata multe aspecte, atât generale, cât şi particulare. 

Revenind la ideea de mai devreme, pot spune că m-am simţit absolut inspirat de campania pe care o puteţi vedea în clipul de mai jos. Sunt de părere că oamenii care fac lucrurile să se mişte în conditiile în care ştim fiecare câte piedici întâmpinăm zi de zi, sunt pur şi simplu demni de respect maxim. Dacă mai adaugăm la aceste caracteristici şi faptul că motivează şi trag după ei prin viziune şi atitudine şi alţi numeroşi oameni, atunci cred că ajungem destul de uşor la potenţialul pe care cred că fiecare dintre noi şi l-ar dori măcar la nivel idealist şi la o ţară şi nişte lucruri care s-ar plia poate mai mult pe acel spaţiu sigur, educativ şi motivaţional pe care ni-l dorim cu toţii.

Să facem deci, ordine în atitudine !