vineri, 25 aprilie 2014

Because we believe in our dreams !

Facing every day the times where almost no one seems to identify a purpose and a way to become unique, or at least differentiate itself from the others, it can become very demotivating to still fighting hard for what you are and what you believe in. "It takes nothing to join the crowd. It takes everything to stand alone" said Hans F. Hanses. Probably this is one of the reasons for which we are keep facing all these resistance walls, proving again and again that we can, that we are able, talented, that we have a gift, that we believe in a dream, and for this matter we will fight for it and also for our values.

Of course, it can become more hard to say it than to just do it, mainly because the amount of work and persistent focus seems to be at least double than normal in this concern. In a society which puts no accent on respect, kindness and honesty, it can become very frustrating to go for the high goals, having "just" your passion, ambition, knowledge and values in your hand. I'm saying "just", because people are tending to believe that in order to break through and reach your objectives, you need an extra help or you just have to model yourself after the world...We don't have to talk about the money topic, which supposed to have their role, but not to lead the persons to unexpected behavior. 

And this is the presentation of how we are all tented to quit and not follow our dreams anymore, to not do the things we worked so hard for until that moment, and to accept the mediocre level of "making things easier" in the short is amazing how facile we can settle with one or two moments of the so-called happiness, instead of actually strive for living the dream. Yes, we are still humans, we have powerful emotions, which lead to great implications which can affect our emotional intelligence in ways in which we haven't even probably thought before...but then again, the sun rises, bringing a new start, the bell is still ringing for an opportunity or two, and the world never stops...then WHY should we stop believing in ourselves and moreover, in our dreams ?

sâmbătă, 19 aprilie 2014

There is a right time for everything

Having this thought in my mind, I am going on the road of writing this articol, because (you have to consider) there is a right time for everything. First of all, I think that is very important to realize this fact. We tend to overthink and overworry about lots of things that happen in our lives. Many of them don't necessarily depend on us, and that's even more interesting, relating to our you can manage something that you can't control ? Of course, there are many reasons for why we are doing this:

  • The rush for achieving goals and that so desired success;
  • The pressure of the society;
  • The time that seems to not have patience in terms of anything;
  • The opinions and feelings of persons that we love and care about;
  • Our ideals, values and the way of being ourselves;
  • The continuous fight with all the other factors from the road of fulfilling our dreams.
And I think you and I know that this list can go on and on...

What it is very important ? It comes a time when you are starting to realize that everything happens for a reason, that all these aspects have an order which (even though is possible not to make sense in our minds on the spot) has all the meaning in the world at the right time. And yes, maybe I keep repeating this expression, but I strongly believe that there are right times for everything: to play, to sleep, to learn (actually you can say that any period can be perceived as the right time for this), to work, to dream, to fall in love, to explore and so on.

It is very fascinating when you realize that these right times can also be multiple, in the same or separate times and each of them has a different and sometimes unique feeling. Another particularity can be the fact that when you finally perceive it, you can appreciate it at that specific level. 

And another beautiful exemple is when you much things tend to change from time to time and how that specific topic helped in what you have become today. So, if you ask me, follow your dreams, your heart and your intuition because they know exactly how you feel, what you are and where you want to be, and much more than this...when it's the right time for everything !